Author: bimbobum

Damn frustrating when you see a vacant parking spot, but to have some idiot’s car double-parked, blocking the damn spot. Real idiots, I tell you.

On another note altogether, today’s my 100th post! Ya, man. Fancy that!!!!!! *does a dance*
My top 3 posts are:
56 comments – threatening suicide is dumb
46 comments – who pays for the first date?
43 comments – Tell me I’m Cute
[my cockroach trap post is actually 4th place!]
*muaks* thank you, I thought I’d never survive this guestblogging assignment. ;P

Sneakers. Trainers. Sports shoes. Same.
Do older or working women fall for men or boys who still wear sneakers all the time?
Once in a while is OK la.
But not all the time (this applies to working men).
Makes me feel like i’m babysitting my younger brother, instead of dating. ;P

I got irritated with someone the other day, supposedly my “superior”. You know how some people enjoying bossing everyone around just by saying, “I’m the Boss here!” or
“I’m Team Leader, so listen to me!” or
“Who is supposed to head this project, you tell me?”
WTF.
If you’re just giving a suggestion, as a leader or superior, you should always consider its value, instead of closing your ears and refusing to listen.
I was merely asking a simple question the other day, and I was shot down with a “Who’s the boss here? I’m the Boss!”
Which technically meant, “Shut the f*ck up, you’re not entitled to ask me this.”
He just didn’t want to answer the question. I was angry at his response because he obviously forgot my contribution to the whole thing.
I hate people like this. It’s not easy to work with people like this or even be friends!
Being a good boss or team leader is a demanding task, you must know how to lead your team as well as be apart of a team as a team player. If you fail to pull your weight around, i.e., you do not contribute to the project at hand, nobody will like you using the phrase, “I’m the Boss here!”.
Phrases like these to remind who’s the boss should only be used when there’s a rebellious team mate who does not contribute at all.
One day, I will tell you the whole story. Politics, I tell you, you can never escape – office politics, school politics, family politics, blogging politics, etc.

It was extremely easy for my friend, MIndy to have a guy give her his number the other night. According to Mindy, the guy, Chan is one helluva hunk. w00t!
Mindy: Hey, when do you want to play tennis? You’ve been meaning to, right?
Chan: Yes. Hehe.
Mindy: *handed over her phone to Chan* There, key in your number for me and I’ll call you the next time I’m playing tennis.
*Chan keyed in his number….*
Lesson #1 – It’s easier to make friends with strangers AND HIT ON GUYS by using a hobby as an ulterior motive. ;P
[cont]
*Chan keyed in his number and handed the phone back to Mindy*
*Mindy took her phone back*
Mindy: *looked at his number* And your name is Choong right? *Mindy keyed his name into her phone*
“MY NAME IS CHAN!!”
Lesson #2 – It is also very easy to insult the guy by forgetting his name.
Before Chan left, Mindy wanted to say goodbye to him. In her drunken state:
“Bye CHOONG!!!! Hope to play tennis with you soon!!!!”
She giggled and waved at him, as he turned to stare at her.
Lesson #3 – Please impress guys when you’re not so drunk.

A question for the girls:
Some time ago, chaliz asked me to bring up the topic about older men and their lack of experience with serious relationships. Girl friends have pondered the same question as well.
A man in his mid-30’s has never had a girlfriend before. The statement “No, I’ve never had a girlfriend before,” may sometimes surprise women/girls. A friend of mine says that it terrifies her, she’s afraid the inexperienced (yet old) boyfriend would be unable to deal with relationship issues that often crop up. Maybe he’ll be too clingy or that her history of relationships may affect him sooner or later.
Does it bother you?
A question for the boys:
Similarly, the issue of sexual experiences will surely crop up. I received a query via email regarding this issue:
If the man has never had sex before, and gets together with a younger girl who is more experienced than him, would he mind
(a) being taught all the naughty tricks she know; or
(b) about her sexual past?
I mean, you know, men have their pride and ego. ;P

A friend was shocked to find out that most often girls (or guys) will somehow get together with someone new, will actually have similar characteristics to the exes. I sat through coffee with her as she told me of her revelation.
“You know, it’s really true. I read it somewhere,” she said.
“I was comparing my last ex and the other one before him. They have similar traits. They’re both mummy’s boys, they’re both emotional, they’re both hamsap (perverted) like hell.”
“Maybe just these two? How about others?” I suggested.
“Nope, there are no others.” she shook her head. (Ok, for the record she only had 2 serious relationships.)
So I was reading it up on the internet the other day (and I lost the page, or I’d let you read it as well) and it seems that there is a pattern – you’ll always be attracted to a person who share the same traits as the last person you were attracted to.
I don’t know which is worse, Freud’s theory that we’d always want to find our mother or father in our partners or this one. ;P
My friend is clearly not happy about this clone-like characteristics. She swears that the next boyfriend shall not have similar traits as the exes, because those were the same traits that she could not deal with.

p.s. There’s also something about being addicted to the wrong men, some women apparently enjoy suffering – sick!