a group of friends are sitting together over a cup of coffee. everyone’s laughing and chatting. you notice one of the girls in the group shooting you dirty looks, kind of bitchy. you pretend you didn’t notice. and as your guy friend (or boyfriend) drives you home, you bring it to their attention. “did you notice just now that girl, AhLianForever gave me a dirty look when we were talking about blah blah…? i mean, what the hell is her problem??” you complain.
“ya, man! i saw! what the hell was her problem?” your girl friend sitting in the backseat of the car confirms your suspicion.
“no la, you’re just being sensitive! i don’t think she was being bitchy. so SENSITIVE la, you girls.” the MAN says.
*** ever get that? come on, we’ve got super instincts, we CAN TELL. ;P
after dinner with the boyfriend, he sends you home. you call him before you sleep, he’s too moody to make conversation. you let it go.
the next day, he doesn’t call like he usually does. so you call him, and he is still reluctant to chat like he’s got a carrot up his ass. you ask him what’s wrong. he says nothing. you ask him what did you do. he sighs. and then he tells you.
“you know, i feel like you’re taking me for granted. like that night.”
“huh? what did i do?” you’re confused.
“you didn’t kiss me goodnight. you didn’t even say “love you” when you said bye…. you just said “goodnite” like i was one of your friends …. “ he tells you.
*** oh my goodness. guys can be sensitive too. ya, the ‘macho’ type of sensitive. metrosexual. new age kind of guy. ;P