A question for the girls:
Some time ago, chaliz asked me to bring up the topic about older men and their lack of experience with serious relationships. Girl friends have pondered the same question as well.
A man in his mid-30’s has never had a girlfriend before. The statement “No, I’ve never had a girlfriend before,” may sometimes surprise women/girls. A friend of mine says that it terrifies her, she’s afraid the inexperienced (yet old) boyfriend would be unable to deal with relationship issues that often crop up. Maybe he’ll be too clingy or that her history of relationships may affect him sooner or later.
Does it bother you?
A question for the boys:
Similarly, the issue of sexual experiences will surely crop up. I received a query via email regarding this issue:
If the man has never had sex before, and gets together with a younger girl who is more experienced than him, would he mind
(a) being taught all the naughty tricks she know; or
(b) about her sexual past?
I mean, you know, men have their pride and ego. ;P
ZOMG! FIRST!!11!
what about younger guy who is more experienced than older girl?. would the girl be impressed with her younger companion’s sexual prowess?. i have always wanted to know.
Well on the plus side, the fact that the guy is so inexperienced means he’s not a player wannabe who thinks he’s god’s gift to womenkind. So the likelihood of him cheating will be smaller..? If he lets the girl’s past bothers him is silly- hey, he chose to date her in the 1st place 😀 He may feel insecure sexually or otherwise to her exes, but the guy should feel that he has something different to offer her..and make it a point to treat her better than the rest lor!
Having said that, I’d still be a little hesistant to date a totally inexperienced guy simply because young and naive doesn’t really appeal to me 🙂 Also, the fact that u have to TUTOR him from scratch makes sex very very boring indeed: true story from my best friend hehe.
ChloeC: inexperience guy does necessary mean he’s young and naive. i have friends who are still virgin at 27.
xes:im still naive. how bout u? virgin…?
cnigel: i dont think this would be an appropriate place to tell people whether im a virgin or not.
xes: so have you ever lose it?
Well.. sorry should have clarified that.. I meant “young” and naive in relationships and sexual matters. For eg, he buys inappropriate gifts for a girl who’s SO NOT into him or will ever be..or he thinks that a 1st date at McDs is OK or thinks that sex is all about “the orgasm”. (examples taken from various guys aged 23-25)
No worry…if wanna top-up ur sexual power… XES got information of pak dollah i think…
in the past blog…hehehe
xes is not a virgin coz it had been taken by none other than……….frank_omatic aka fanky.
hahaha…there is not much virgin in the world lar at age 25.
1st date @ mcd? huh? i’m sure that is a super hypothetical example only right, cos only 13 or 14 years old kid would do that..
i wouldn’t mind if she knows more sexual tricks than kama sutra..i’d be happy to learn..;P
iV’N: you’re always first ;P must give prize next time for frequent 1st timers. eheheh
booby: who do you want to answer, the older girls? i think some don’t mind, they will enjoy the attention, i think. unless the man is cruel enough to stop having sex with her by using wrinkles and saggy breasts as an excuse?
ChloeC: there’s good and bad, i guess. haha. your best friend was not very patient perhaps. get him to watch more pron?
xes: me too. i wonder if they’re frustrated, though.
endroo: not an appropriate question to ask here. ehehe ;P so how about you?
ChloeC: McD’s 1st date? 13 years olds meh?
insomnia: is it? ;P
booby: and fanky is no longer a virgin because of mr. ong KK!
FrentZen: i think in singapore they start very young
pokai: learning is always part of the process, but the teacher would have to be patient, and the student should never feel pressured or insecure
pokai: most of the positions in the kama sutra is impossible to do unless you are willing to break or dislocate some bones.
ahahaha now only i know must learn yoga first before can do kama sutra positions?
bimbo: kama sutra is for the experienced. u virgin ah?.
this post is not to find out who is and isn’t a virgin ;P
I’am in my 30’s and still virgin… Any young girls out there want to teach an old dog new tricks???
lol…joking joking
haha…what a funny topic.
My advise to all the older men out there in virgin land. Go to brothel and train really really hard… then can make younger girlfriend orgasm all nite long.
Then older man not feel embarrassed about being sexually unexperience.
Trust me man..the Mcds example was from a guy who was in Uni so he was 22-23? Or maybe just really really kiamsup.. no wonder no girlfriend yet. LOL.
there was a old saying,
‘if a man is a virgin and he is 30 years old. he is either impotent, or he is a gay.’
zhong: what if he is a priest?
ChloeC: terrible! must be really stingy.
Scuzzy: so they won’t lose their virginity from sodomosing altar boys? ;P
comic like kid’s drawing
bimbo: that is also a question not appropriate to be answered here.
i thought xes might be sleepy or in vertigo and simply answers the question. haha.
endroo then answer the question for boys ;P
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